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25. E-Women

I love talking to the female administrator, floor nurse, receptionist, store manager, lawyer, doctor, mother, the architect, the engineer, the x, the y, and the z. I love 'em all, always have, and always will. Women using reason are, to me, at their most attractive.

I also think women are more observant than men and much quicker on the uptake. They seem to respect their bodies more and I like that too. And they are capable of enchanting me and providing solace when no one else can. I can easily understand the idolization of good women by their adoring husbands.

What frustrates, annoys, and makes me impatient, nervous and unsure of myself is trying to talk with e-women. Women become e-women whenever they abandon being reasonable. And especially when they demand that I treat their emotional reactions as coherent, normal conversation.

Probably the most frustrating part of talking with e-women is the impossibility of me matching their emotions. I simply can't do it. Sometimes I want to so badly that I really try to do it. Then pictures of simpering men float in my mind. Ugh! It is a major and usually unsuccessful effort for me to match any man's emotions. Fortunately, men don't seem to dwell on their emotions overly long. E-women stretch them out and sometimes make them last for their entire lives!

If women knew that they, being as inherently reasonable as I am (sometimes more so), were only playing with and enjoying their emotions, I would feel much better. Then I could joyfully participate in their diversions, sad as too many of them seem to be. After all, I am a sensitive and reasonably intelligent man; capable of enjoying 'chisme' (gossip in Spanish) and can dish the dirt with just about anyone.

But e-women just don't want to see emotions as diversions. They want to see them as the mainstays of society and the principle reasons for Life. Why is that? What are e-women afraid of? Are they afraid of losing control of men or of their own identity if they downgrade emotions to the diversion level? If it's controlling men you can trust me on this one: the "control-game" by either sex is a complete loser. If it's their identity they are worried about, holy mackerel, with all the happy and successful women around, e-women should know that men find intelligent, rational women very desirable and that those women are loved and admired by both sexes.

I'm between a 'rock and a hard place', between loving women (even e-women) and unable to talk consistently with them. Help!

Ps: After evaluating some preliminary bouquets/brickbats re the above. I most cordially offer to strong-minded, intelligent women who are having trouble communicating with the male sex the following two essays, viz, "CES (F)" & "CES (M)". There is much love, affection and respect to those who realize men are logical and afflicted by sex.

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